About Lorraine

Meet Lorraine Chapman?

Thank you for being here. I am genuinely excited to share in your journey and tell you the truth about mine.

I am sure, like me, your life has had more twists and turns than any neatly planned path should. I have definitely had my fair share, both personally and professionally. There have been moments of pure joy: the birth of my son, becoming a nan, climbing Snowdon, teaching in Africa, winning awards including a lifetime achievement award, writing my book and marrying Steve. These milestones have shaped my life in the most beautiful ways.
They also taught me that life gets a lot more magical when you stop pretending and start showing up as the real you.

Growing in the Dark

But let’s be honest, there were shadows.
For years, I lived a double life: a professional middle leader by day and a woman secretly exploring her sexuality, relationships and identity by night. I carried depression, shame, fear and isolation like heavy pockets full of stones.

By 2016, the weight became too much. My inner world was falling apart while my outer world looked perfectly fine.Something had to change.

So I walked away from teaching, the career I thought I would retire in, and immersed myself in healing and personal development. I studied and qualified in mindfulness, tantra, somatic bodywork, energy healing, coaching, comedy and professional speaking.
Comedy and tantra are not a conventional combo, but neither am I, and neither is the human journey.
This chapter cracked me open and taught me that we do our best growing when we stop hiding the parts of ourselves we think people will not accept.

Stepping Into My Truth

In 2016, I stepped into business, trembling but determined, and Orgasmic Life was born. Through workshops and 1 to 1 work, I supported people in mindfulness, somatic embodiment and deep healing.

Soon after, I found myself on podcasts, in the media, and speaking publicly about my journey with sex, intimacy and pleasure. I won awards in business and public speaking and wrote both my business book and my autobiography.

Over time, I realised my story was not just about sexuality at all. It was about truth.
About shame. About the courage to stop editing yourself to be more acceptable. It was about refusing to live as the PG rated version of who you actually are.

My book has empowered people far beyond sex and intimacy. It reminds us that when we step into our truth with confidence, courage and connection anything becomes possible.

Fanning The Flame

In 2025, I trained as a Sundoor Firewalk Instructor and Empowerment Coach. This did not just change my work. It changed me.

Firewalking, glass walking, arrow breaking, board breaking, rebar bending… Nothing introduces you to your power quite like looking fear in the face and walking straight through it anyway.

I found a version of myself I had been waiting to meet.
The brave one. The honest one. The unapologetic one. The one who remembered she was built for more than survival. She was built for fire.

Now I deliver heart led, honest, humorous presentations, run life changing empowerment events and support individuals through 1 to 1 coaching.
My work is not about fixing people. It is about waking them up. It is about helping people step into clarity, courage and the kind of self belief that does not evaporate the second life throws a curveball.

Here and Now

Whether I am guiding someone across hot coals, helping a person release years of tension and emotional weight, or speaking to hundreds from a stage, my mission stays the same:

To empower people to step into their truth with confidence, courage and deep, unapologetic connection. To help people stop hiding, stop shrinking, stop apologising and start living from the fire they have been sitting on for years.
Because the moment you choose yourself, really choose yourself, everything changes.