I help people heal sexual shame so they can reconnect to their life force and live fully.
Most people don’t realise how much of themselves they’ve quietly put away.
Sexual shame doesn’t always shout. It whispers. It shows up in the moments you tone yourself down, soften your truth, over-achieve to feel enough, or hold back what you really want to say. It shapes how comfortable you feel with desire, success, visibility and being fully seen.
You can look confident and still be contained.
You can be high-functioning and still feel muted.
When sexual shame begins to loosen, something beautiful happens. Energy returns. Your voice steadies. Boundaries feel cleaner. Confidence becomes embodied rather than performed. You stop negotiating with who you are.
This work isn’t about provocation. It’s about integration. It honours the ways you learned to stay safe – and gently invites you to come home to yourself.
Because the patterns that shape intimacy also shape ambition. The shame that silences desire can silence authority. And when you reconnect to your life force, how you show up changes everywhere.
For individuals who sense they are capable of more but are tired of editing themselves.
For groups who want deeper honesty and connection.
For organisations who understand that performance is always human first — shaped by confidence, boundaries, self-trust and the energy people bring into the room.
Through immersive workshops, events and experiences that create real shifts in confidence and presence.
Through 1:1 support for those ready to interrupt old patterns and step into truth.
Through keynotes and organisational sessions that change the tone of a room and open conversations that matter.
If you’re ready to stop hiding and start living, you’re in the right place.
Begin Your Reconnection
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Lorraine has had the pleasure of collaborating with a diverse range of clients from all corners of the globe. Here’s what some of her clients have said about their experiences
Sue Allsworth
Lorraine is a breath of fresh air. Not afraid to speak about intimacy and sexual energy communication and boundaries. Lorraine gives you a safe space to explore and delve deeper.
Life and Soul Radio
Lorraine talks from a level of knowledge which is empowering and refreshing, she tells it like it is. If you are looking for an honest, relaxed and approachable speaker I would recommended Lorraine.
Sunil P
Lorraine is a truly amazing speaker. What makes her so special is her authenticity and courage to speak her truth. If you ever have a chance to listen to her – don’t miss out, you won’t regret it!!!
Steph Love
I attended Lorraines comedy show, it was brilliant! She is a naturally funny story teller with such a presence on stage. Her show was hilarious and she had so much material for a long set!
Dejana Subsol
Lisette Anbergen
Lorraine does not disappoint! With her wisdom and humor she breaks through barriers and taboos to help people with their sexuality and issues that they might have around it.
























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