
Serious Subjects. Real Conversations. Plenty of Laughter.
Because the best conversations often start with a good laugh!
Sex. Intimacy. Relationships. Communication. Confidence.
They’re part of everyday life, yet somehow they’re still some of the subjects we find hardest to talk about.
And let’s face it, most of us were never given a proper instruction manual!
I’m Lorraine Chapman, an international speaker, bestselling author, relationship specialist and creator of the Sexcess System®.
I combine education, lived experience and comedy to bring these conversations to life.
From conference stages and corporate events to adult audiences, I get people laughing, thinking and talking about subjects that really matter.
My mission? To make learning memorable, conversations easier and audiences leave wanting more.


I’m a former senior lecturer, award-winning international speaker, bestselling author and creator of the Sexcess System®.
I’ve spent years teaching, exploring and talking about relationships, human behaviour, sex and intimacy.
My professional background gives me the knowledge.
My life experiences give me the stories.
And my sense of humour brings it all together.
I believe audiences deserve more than another presentation they’ll forget by lunchtime.
“She was so funny, and the content was brilliant!”
Looking for a speaker, an engaging workshop or an event that’s a little different?
From major conferences and corporate events to interactive workshops, personal development experiences and adult comedy shows, I bring knowledge, real-life experience and plenty of humour to everything I do.
Whether you’re looking to educate, inspire, entertain or create meaningful change, let’s make it an experience to remember!
Lorraine Chapman | International Speaker | Bestselling Author | Comedic Sex Educator
Serious Subjects. Real Conversations. Plenty of Laughter.














Lorraine has had the pleasure of collaborating with a diverse range of clients from all corners of the globe. Here’s what some of her clients have said about their experiences
Sue Allsworth
Lorraine is a breath of fresh air. Not afraid to speak about intimacy and sexual energy communication and boundaries. Lorraine gives you a safe space to explore and delve deeper.
Life and Soul Radio
Lorraine talks from a level of knowledge which is empowering and refreshing, she tells it like it is. If you are looking for an honest, relaxed and approachable speaker I would recommended Lorraine.
Sunil P
Lorraine is a truly amazing speaker. What makes her so special is her authenticity and courage to speak her truth. If you ever have a chance to listen to her – don’t miss out, you won’t regret it!!!
Steph Love
I attended Lorraines comedy show, it was brilliant! She is a naturally funny story teller with such a presence on stage. Her show was hilarious and she had so much material for a long set!
Dejana Subsol
Lisette Anbergen
Lorraine does not disappoint! With her wisdom and humor she breaks through barriers and taboos to help people with their sexuality and issues that they might have around it.
























Lorraine Chapman – Unleash Your Fire (TM)
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