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October 2026
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20 Week Programme
Full Programme Investment £388
The Sexcess System® is a personal development framework – educational and reflective in nature, that creates a safe, structured space to explore identity, relationships and authentic expression. It does not offer therapy or prescribe how your relationships should look. Instead, it provides a guided path for developing deeper self-awareness and understanding of your own experiences.
Recognise the influences, beliefs and patterns that have shaped your experience of intimacy, identity and relationships.
Pretending
Programming
Pressure
Pain
Reconnect with your body, your boundaries and your capacity for authentic expression in the present moment.
Permission
Presence
Pleasure
Apply your awareness to relationships, confidence and life choices, creating a conscious vision for the future.
Partnership
Power
Possibility
You feel disconnected from yourself
You sense there’s a gap between who you are and how you show up in relationships or intimate situations.
You’re exploring your desires and identity
You want a safe, structured space to understand what you truly want and who you authentically are.
Patterns keep repeating in relationships
You recognise recurring dynamics, in communication, connection, or conflict, and are ready to understand them.
You want more from intimacy and connection
You’re curious about deeper presence, genuine pleasure and authentic expression in your relationships.
Recognise the beliefs and patterns that have shaped your relationships and how you express yourself.
Develop clearer, more honest ways of expressing your needs, desires and boundaries with others.
Build presence, body awareness and a more positive relationship with sensuality and pleasure.
Develop compassion for your own experiences and greater capacity for vulnerability and trust.
Reclaim your sense of personal power, body acceptance and authentic self-expression.
Complete a personal reflection portfolio and receive a Level 1 certificate.
Andy Davis
As one of life’s cynics I didn’t quite know what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised. Lorraine has a great deal of experience in this area and conducted the space beautifully. I came away with real tools.
Helen and Rob
We firstly had a really great afternoon, felt comfortable and welcomed. Lorraine, you held the space beautifully! The information on consent and boundaries was so important and again something we might not think about often when you’ve been with someone for a long time.
Life and Soul Radio
Lorraine talks from a level of knowledge which is empowering and refreshing, she tells it like it is. If you are looking for an honest, relaxed and approachable speaker I would recommended Lorraine.
Steph Love
I attended Lorraines comedy show, it was brilliant! She is a naturally funny story teller with such a presence on stage. Her show was hilarious and she had so much material for a long set!
Sandy
I thoroughly enjoy your style of presentation…you deliver with humour…no preaching just knowledge, tools and encouragement. The space felt very safe and supportive.
Craig H
It was the most inclusive learning experience. The content was user-friendly without being too fluffy. Delivered in a warm, friendly, supportive way, using a nice mixture of the ethereal and the practical
Your Essential FAQ on Sexcess System,
Practitioners are trained to guide rather than direct. Rather than telling you what to do, they use reflective questions and active listening to help you develop your own understanding. You remain in full authority over your choices at all times. The practitioner’s role is to hold a consistent, professional space in which your own insights can emerge naturally.
The Sexcess System® is structured as a 20-week programme, giving you a clear and contained journey from start to finish. It is divided into three phases – Exploration, Embodiment and Expansion – each building on the last. Your practitioner will work at a pace that feels right for you throughout.
Yes. The Sexcess System® supports both individuals and couples. Couples work focuses on developing awareness of relational dynamics, improving communication and building greater connection. Each person’s experience is treated with equal care and respect throughout.
Yes. Practitioners operate within clear professional standards and take confidentiality seriously. Your sessions are a private and contained space. Your practitioner will explain the professional boundaries that apply at the very start of your coaching relationship so you know exactly what to expect.
This is a completely natural and welcome part of the process. Practitioners are trained to hold a calm, steady presence when emotions arise – giving you space to move through the moment at your own pace. You are always in control of what you share and how deeply you explore. If a session ever moves beyond the appropriate scope, your practitioner will let you know with care and compassion
A good starting point is an introductory conversation. Your practitioner will take time to understand your needs and explain how the programme works so you can make an informed decision. You should feel heard, respected and comfortable from the very first interaction – and there is never any pressure to continue if it doesn’t feel like the right fit.
Lorraine Chapman – Unleash Your Fire (TM)
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